Wednesday, June 28, 2006

After a Recovery

It has been a long time since I posted. Clark has come a long way. We moved to Alabama, from Ohio and that is a good thing. We are in a struggle though. So, I need to blog it out. LOL. Before Clark had his strokes, he was in charge of everything. He did the finances, made all the decisions. I worked full time, but left everything else up to him. That all changed when he had his strokes, I took over, in every way. When I look back, I was determined to be strong and "fix" everything. To make this short, I became the decision maker, since Clark couldn't. Well, now (Thank the Lord), Clark is still progressing. He still has speech, reading, memory and a little right side weakness, but he has come back enough that he wants the decision making or control back. I in the other hand, don't want to give it totally up. We both recognize this and talk about how to handle it. We disagree a lot and it escalates to a fight status more then we both like. We want to level out. We want to some how come to a agreement that, neither of us need to be in control. We can work equally with each other. But, man that is easier said then done. I am sure other stroke families have experienced this. I think Clark and I are starting to go in the right direction, since we at least understand what has happening. I think what I need to do, is to back off more, keep the little "lips" sewed shut more.
Here we go another stage in our marriage, the other end will be wonderful....

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